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		<title>Telstra Business Awards 2017</title>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">It was such an incredible honour to be recognised as one of <a target="_blank" href="https://www.telstrabusinessawards.com/news/2017/health-and-tech-businesses-shine-bright-at-telstra-business-awards/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">WA&#8217;s top 6 new businesses</a> at the 2017 Telstra Business Awards last weekend!</p>
<p>When I think back to three years ago, and how scared I was to share <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/08/100-days-without-a-drink-history/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">the story</a> of my drinking. How it was impacting me, not just physically but emotionally, I never could have dreamt it would lead us to this night. Filled with inspiring journeys and innovations, we were truly humbled to be a part of it.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re so grateful to Telstra Business Awards for this amazing opportunity (and accolade!), and for providing a platform for new and small businesses to share their stories.</p>
<p>And to YOU guys, for all your gorgeous messages of love and support! They inspire us every day to keep doing this work in the world. And to every single one of our beautiful community for making up the magic that is Sexy Sobriety. It felt incredible to be representing my sober sisters, and smashing the stigma! This one&#8217;s for you, angels!</p>
<p>We&#8217;re so excited about the future of <a target="_blank" href="https://sexysobriety.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Sexy Sobriety</a>, and can&#8217;t wait to see where this adventure leads us next! x</p>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Happy <a target="_blank" href="http://virtualveganpotluck.com/december-2014/">VVP</a> Saturday, beautiful soul!</p>
<p>If you’ve been around these digs for a while now, you’ll remember how much fun we had at the previous Virtual Vegan Potluck parties with <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2012/11/01/virtual-vegan-potluck-%E2%9C%B0-raw-red-velvet-cake-ice-cream/">Raw Red Velvet Cake Ice-Cream</a>, <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2013/05/11/virtual-vegan-potluck-beetroot-goats-cheese-tarts/">Beetroot &amp; Vegan &#8216;Goat Cheese&#8217; Tarts</a> and <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2013/11/16/pickled-beet-mini-tacos/">Pickled Beet Mini Tacos</a>:</p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2012/11/01/virtual-vegan-potluck-%E2%9C%B0-raw-red-velvet-cake-ice-cream/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5282" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/red-velvet-bench-closeup.jpg" alt="Raw Red Velvet Cake Ice-Cream" width="1024" height="755" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/red-velvet-bench-closeup.jpg 1024w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/red-velvet-bench-closeup-300x221.jpg 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/red-velvet-bench-closeup-550x405.jpg 550w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2013/11/16/pickled-beet-mini-tacos/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-7587" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1.jpg" alt="Pickled Beetroot Mini Taco" width="1210" height="682" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1.jpg 1210w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1-200x112.jpg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1-300x169.jpg 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1-650x366.jpg 650w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/BeetrootTaco1-550x310.jpg 550w" sizes="(max-width: 1210px) 100vw, 1210px" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2013/05/11/virtual-vegan-potluck-beetroot-goats-cheese-tarts/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-6944" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goat-cheese.jpg" alt="Beetroot &amp; Vegan Goat Cheese Tarts" width="640" height="442" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goat-cheese.jpg 640w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goat-cheese-300x207.jpg 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/goat-cheese-550x379.jpg 550w" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px" /></a></p>
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<h2>Well it&#8217;s BACK, baby, bigger and better than ever!</h2>
<p>More than 85 food bloggers worldwide have teamed up to bring you an incredible smörgåsbord of vegan dishes to delight and inspire you!  Click on the buttons below to follow the drool-worthy trail around the world.</p>
<p>A huge thank you to <a target="_blank" href="http://anunrefinedvegan.com/">An Unrefined Vegan</a>, <a target="_blank" href="http://canned-time.com">Canned Time</a> and <a target="_blank" href="http://bunnykitchen.com">Bunny Kitchen</a> for hosting this amazing, global party once again.</p>
<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been mixing up a storm of delicious, alcohol-and-sugar-free elixir recipes for <a target="_blank" href="http://sexysobriety.com.au">Sexy Sobriety</a>, so I thought why not bring some to the VVP Party as well!</p>
<p>The first time I made this drink, my grapefruit was a lovely pink colour inside. This time around, my magical grapefruit was a light-orange colour. The result was a lot sweeter, but both versions were delicious.</p>
<p>My point? Any grapefruit in a storm should do it. The sweetness of fresh basil tones down the grapefruit&#8217;s bitterness and together they produce a sophisticated, flavour sensation.</p>
<p>Best of all? It&#8217;s super healthy, a cinch to make, and will thoroughly impress your guests.</p>
<p>Happy holidays!</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8660" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Basil-and-Grapefruit-elixir-landscape2.jpg" alt="Basil Grapefruit Elixir - sugar &amp; alcohol-free" width="1228" height="767" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Basil-and-Grapefruit-elixir-landscape2.jpg 1228w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Basil-and-Grapefruit-elixir-landscape2-200x124.jpg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Basil-and-Grapefruit-elixir-landscape2-300x187.jpg 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Basil-and-Grapefruit-elixir-landscape2-650x405.jpg 650w" sizes="(max-width: 1228px) 100vw, 1228px" /></p>
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</div></div> <br />And now that you&#8217;re suitably refreshed, it&#8217;s on to the rest of the VVP party!</p>
<p>Have fun!  </p>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Well, I never saw <em>this</em> coming.  Isn&#8217;t this Universe just the funniest thing?</p>
<p>Six months ago I was hiding wine bottles and binge drinking almost every weekend.</p>
<p>At 39 years of age – and a Health Coach, no less – I should have known better. But drinking doesn’t work like that, does it? It’s a sneaky little monster that creeps up day-by-day until it steals your self-worth and happiness.</p>
<p>Six months ago, on one of ‘those’ mornings filled with sobbing and regret, I decided to conduct a sassy, soulful experiment. An experiment that changed my life.</p>
<p>I cleaned up my act, did a <em>ton</em> of inner work, embraced sobriety, and somehow found the courage to share all the gory details with you:</p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/08/100-days-without-a-drink-history/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100dayswithoutadrinkp1-square.jpg" alt="100 Days Without A Drink" width="640" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8438" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/15/100-days-without-a-drink-tools/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100dayswithoutadrinkp2-square.jpg" alt="100 Days Without a Drink - Part 2" width="640" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8454" /></a><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/08/07/100-days-without-a-drink-lessons/"></a></p>
<p><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/08/07/100-days-without-a-drink-lessons/"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100dayswithoutadrinkp3-square.jpg" alt="100 Days Without a Drink - Part 3" width="640" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8519" /></a></p>
<p>And because this Universe of ours has a wicked sense of humour, it double-dared me when a journalist asked me to share <a target="_blank" href="http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/alcohol-is-destroying-us-four-australians-share-their-stories/story-e6frg6n6-1227032066650?nk=274604b7440ffcc846aa08395ba7a1e0">my story</a> on the largest mainstream media platform in the country.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m still standing, baby. And best of all, my darkest hours have inspired a soulful new direction. I&#8217;m so excited to announce that I&#8217;m now hard at work creating the membership site and resource I wish I had during the first 30 days.</p>
<p>For all my beauties out there who might be struggling with the same battles and demons, this is for you, angel. You are loved, and you are not alone.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">::  Interviews + inspiration</span> from kick-ass babes who wouldn&#8217;t be where they are now if they hadn&#8217;t ditched the drink.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">::  Elixirs + desserts</span> to tease your tastebuds and keep your mouth deliciously occupied.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">::  Stories + journals</span> for deep reflection and getting your head straight.</p>
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		<title>Three Tales of Freedom</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2014 04:54:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>&#160; Aahhh, delicious, blissful freedom. &#160;Sweet liberation from habits and patterns that keep us stuck and hold us back from living the life we truly want. The path to freedom is rarely easy. Often it&#8217;s a journey that challenges us to dig deeper, face our demons, and love ourselves enough to create lasting change. Helping [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/08/27/three-tales-of-freedom/">Three Tales of Freedom</a> appeared first on <a href="https://vegansparkles.com">Vegan Sparkles with Rebecca Weller</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;<br />
Aahhh, delicious, blissful <em>freedom</em>.  &nbsp;Sweet liberation from habits and patterns that keep us stuck and hold us back from living the life we <em>truly</em> want.  </p>
<p>The path to freedom is rarely easy.  Often it&#8217;s a journey that challenges us to dig deeper, face our demons, and love ourselves enough to create lasting change. </p>
<p>Helping my gorgeous clients find freedom fills me with pure and utter joy, so when I received three interview requests lately on this very topic, I jumped at the chance to share my love for health and happiness &#8211; and the hard lessons I&#8217;ve learnt along the way&#8230;<br />
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<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/threeTalesOfFreedom.jpg" alt="Three Tales of Freedom" width="640" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8567" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/threeTalesOfFreedom.jpg 640w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/threeTalesOfFreedom-200x125.jpg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/threeTalesOfFreedom-300x187.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px" /><br />
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<h1>Freedom from Fear</h1>
<p>FEAR. It&#8217;s such a fascinating topic, no? </p>
<p>As a &#8216;Soulpreuner&#8217; I feel like I eat fear for breakfast. It never really goes away, but I&#8217;ve learnt to be kinda&#8217; glad about that. Without fear, there isn&#8217;t growth. Busting through limiting beliefs and showing myself what I&#8217;m really made of makes me feel fully <em>alive</em>. </p>
<p>When Kyana Miner asked me to be one of 21 fear-busting warriors speaking in this <em>free</em> global webinar event about Crazy Courage, I was thrilled and honoured.  Ironically, live interviews are still very scary for me (hence my nervous excitement in the video!).</p>
<p>Join us <a target="_blank" href="http://crazycourage.com/launch/?expert=13">here</a> as we talk fears, limiting beliefs, intuition, and truly stepping into our authenticity.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Crazy Courage</h2>
<blockquote><p>From engineer to entrepreneur, Day 3 of the Crazy Courage Interview Series is a story about fear, love, and success.  For the next 32 minutes, don&#8217;t focus on your limitations. Allow yourself to dream about the possibilities in your own life as you watch this interview.</p>
<p>Rebecca, affectionately called Bex by her clients, fell in love, quit her job, and started her own business.  Bex’s story is so inspiring. She had no idea how she was going to create success. But in one short year, she has been featured in the news and on some of the most popular health blogs in the world.</p>
<p>The best part of this interview with Bex is her honesty as she talks about her scariest moments along her journey toward greater passion and aliveness. </p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; Kyana Miner, <a target="_blank" href="http://crazycourage.com/launch/?expert=13">CrazyCourage.com</a></p>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://crazycourage.com/launch/?expert=13"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Region-capture-4.png" alt="Crazy Courage Expert Rebecca Bex Weller" width="800" height="371" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8560" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Region-capture-4.png 800w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Region-capture-4-200x92.png 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Region-capture-4-300x139.png 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Region-capture-4-650x301.png 650w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></p>
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<h1>Freedom from Dieting</h1>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you know by now that I do not believe in dieting, one little bit!  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve shared with you <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/05/23/my-before-pics/">my &#8216;before&#8217; pics</a> and <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2013/07/30/diet-shakes/">the truth about diet shakes</a>.  For years, dieting kept me trapped in a dysfunctional relationship with food.  </p>
<p>But you know what? I’m not sorry that my journey took me there. My experience drives my passion to help women liberate themselves from the same sorts of issues. Knowing – first hand – just how devastating it can be to feel stuck in an unhealthy pattern helps me to be a more compassionate coach and truly understand what my clients are going through.  </p>
<p>When STM Journalist Katie Robertson asked me to share my story in an article about the increasing shift in focus from &#8216;thin&#8217; to &#8216;fit &#038; healthy&#8217;, I was thrilled and honoured.</p>
<p>Join us <a target="_blank" href="http://www.news.com.au/national/western-australia/perth-healthpreneurs-rebecca-weller-athanae-lucev-and-renae-wauhop-talk-healthy-living/story-fnii5thn-1227000145659">here</a> as we talk whole foods and motivational mantras, the essence of wellness (inside and out), and self-love.<br />
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<h2>Fit is the New Skinny</h2>
<blockquote><p>FORGET thigh gaps and bikini bridges, healthy living has become a national obsession. Meet the young “health-preneurs” leading the charge.</p>
<p>Rebecca Weller used to wash down her shame and stress with diet shakes. She forced down non-fat foods in her lunchbreak at the office and then went home to the low-calorie dinners lining her freezer.</p>
<p>The Perth-based cost engineer was just like many women she knew — a neon sign emblazoned with the word “THIN” buzzed and flickered in her mind, taunting her while she ran the numbers on the calories she’d eaten that day like a frenzied tax accountant.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; Katie Robertson, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.news.com.au/national/western-australia/perth-healthpreneurs-rebecca-weller-athanae-lucev-and-renae-wauhop-talk-healthy-living/story-fnii5thn-1227000145659">The Sunday Times Magazine / News.com.au</a>  </p>
<div id="attachment_8565" style="width: 660px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.news.com.au/national/western-australia/perth-healthpreneurs-rebecca-weller-athanae-lucev-and-renae-wauhop-talk-healthy-living/story-fnii5thn-1227000145659"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-8565" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/172956-04821d3e-12e4-11e4-ae81-95568c4ed36e.jpg" alt="Image Credit: Richard Hatherly" width="650" height="366" class="size-full wp-image-8565" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/172956-04821d3e-12e4-11e4-ae81-95568c4ed36e.jpg 650w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/172956-04821d3e-12e4-11e4-ae81-95568c4ed36e-200x112.jpg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/172956-04821d3e-12e4-11e4-ae81-95568c4ed36e-300x168.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-8565" class="wp-caption-text">Image Credit: Richard Hatherly</p></div>
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<h1>Freedom from Addiction</h1>
<p>Sharing my <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/08/100-days-without-a-drink-history/">alcohol-free journey</a> with you recently was one of my scariest moments.  I don&#8217;t think anyone likes admitting (especially publicly!) things they don&#8217;t like about themselves.  </p>
<p>But the love and support that poured in from you guys filled my heart to overflowing.  </p>
<p>I also learnt an important lesson in the process: that vulnerability is powerful.  We never know what others are struggling with until we have the courage to share our own stories and demons.</p>
<p>So when News.com.au Journalist Kate Midena asked me to share my story in such an important story about the effects of alcohol, I was deeply honoured.</p>
<p>Join us <a target="_blank" href="http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/alcohol-is-destroying-us-four-australians-share-their-stories/story-e6frg6n6-1227032066650?nk=274604b7440ffcc846aa08395ba7a1e0">here</a> as we talk about big, scary changes, and the beauty of hope and new beginnings.<br />
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<h2>Is Alcohol Destroying Us?</h2>
<blockquote><p>News.com.au spoke to four people whose lives have all been affected by alcohol in different ways. When we asked each of them if they thought the Australian public were aware of just how damaging alcohol can be, the answer was a resounding ‘No’.</p>
<p>“Alcohol is such a huge part of the Australian culture, drinking at every social gathering is just widely accepted as ‘normal’,” Rebecca Weller told us. “I think it’s only when we take an extended break from drinking that we realise just how damaging and unnecessary it really is.”</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8211; Kate Midena, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/alcohol-is-destroying-us-four-australians-share-their-stories/story-e6frg6n6-1227032066650?nk=274604b7440ffcc846aa08395ba7a1e0">The Australian / News.com.au</a> </p>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/alcohol-is-destroying-us-four-australians-share-their-stories/story-e6frg6n6-1227032066650?nk=274604b7440ffcc846aa08395ba7a1e0"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/vegansparkles_129-copy.jpeg" alt="Rebecca Bex Weller Health Coach Perth" width="800" height="533" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8566" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/vegansparkles_129-copy.jpeg 800w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/vegansparkles_129-copy-200x133.jpeg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/vegansparkles_129-copy-300x199.jpeg 300w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/vegansparkles_129-copy-650x433.jpeg 650w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px" /></a></p>
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I&#8217;d love to hear from you in the comments below, beautiful.  Have you discovered freedom from a habit or pattern that previously held you back?  How has it impacted your life for the better? </p>
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		<title>100 Days Without a Drink &#8211; Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2014 03:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Click here to read Part 1 &#160;&#038; &#160;here to read Part 2. &#160; I knew a lifestyle change of this magnitude (and the internal work it required) called for radical self-kindness, so I &#8216;rewarded&#8217; myself for getting through each day with little treats like long walks, fresh sheets, fresh flowers, new books, raw desserts, and [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/08/07/100-days-without-a-drink-lessons/">100 Days Without a Drink &#8211; Part 3</a> appeared first on <a href="https://vegansparkles.com">Vegan Sparkles with Rebecca Weller</a>.</p>
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<h2><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/08/100-days-without-a-drink-history/">Click here to read Part 1</a>  &nbsp;&#038;  &nbsp;<a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/15/100-days-without-a-drink-tools/">here to read Part 2.</a></h2>
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I knew a lifestyle change of this magnitude (and the internal work it required) called for radical self-kindness, so I &#8216;rewarded&#8217; myself for getting through each day with little treats like long walks, fresh sheets, fresh flowers, new books, raw desserts, and anything else that made things easier.  I drank sparkling mineral water from fancy glasses and hugged my love a lot.  I went to bed early.  I cried some more and began to find it easier to talk about my fears and the jumbled mess of emotions that kept pouring out of me.</p>
<p>And in amongst the jumbled mess came some pretty big lessons and discoveries&#8230;<br />
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<h2>The Problem Wasn&#8217;t What I Thought it Was</h2>
<p>All this time I thought the problem was my lack of willpower.  As soon as I had that first drink, I didn’t want to stop, even though drinking to excess (and the awful shame and hangovers it left in its wake) had stopped being fun a long time ago.  </p>
<p>It was a beautiful breakthrough when I realised that after I had that first drink, it wasn’t really <em>me</em> making the decisions anymore – my judgement was impaired, the Wine Monster was in full control and it wanted <em>more, more, MORE!</em>  &nbsp;So it wasn’t actually the fourth or fifth drink that was the big problem for me – it was that very first one.<br />
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<h2>It&#8217;s Okay (and Healthy) to Redefine &#8216;Fun&#8217;</h2>
<p>One of my biggest fears about quitting drinking was that I&#8217;d never have &#8211; or <em>be</em> &#8211; fun, ever again.  I honestly didn&#8217;t believe I&#8217;d feel joy in a world without endless social events and free-flowing bubbles&#8230;  Without a crisp white wine with dinner&#8230;  Without cheeky sunset cocktails&#8230;  </p>
<p>After a bit of (sober) time to think, I began to realise that perhaps the reason I got so drunk at particular events was because I wasn&#8217;t comfortable there in the first place.  </p>
<p>Now I skip events that don&#8217;t feel right for me.  With my increasing self-respect (thank you, sobriety!) comes a feeling of being quite protective of my energy and not subjecting myself to unnecessarily toxic environments or situations.    </p>
<p>If I&#8217;m invited to a big, boozy affair, I&#8217;ll arrive early and leave early.  I have a great time chatting to everyone and then make a hasty exit before things get too messy.  </p>
<p>It took some adjustment but I realise now it&#8217;s only natural that my social life will change as a result of my decision, and with each passing day I feel more okay with that.<br />
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<h2>I Don&#8217;t Need Alcohol to Have a Good Time</h2>
<p>Trust me, no-one was more shocked at this one than me.  I was awestruck the first time I went to an event sober and had a really great time.  </p>
<p>Belly ache from laughing?  &nbsp;Check.<br />
Deep and meaningful conversations?  &nbsp;Check.<br />
A clear and grateful head hitting the pillow well before midnight?  &nbsp;<em>Ohhhh</em>, scrumptious <em>check</em>!<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>I Love People More</h2>
<p>Back when I socialised with a drink in my hand, there was always part of my mind that was preoccupied with thoughts of booze.  </p>
<p><em>Did I bring enough wine?  Is it too soon to get another drink?  Will anyone notice if I pour another?  What happens if we run out?  Will the bottle shop still be open?  Will we make it in time?  </em>  </p>
<p>Now, when I talk to people, I&#8217;m 100% present and focused on what they&#8217;re saying.  Better yet, I remember everything we talked about!  My relationships are so much stronger and deeper, and that sense of connection makes me feel so much happier.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Dutch Courage is a Diddle</h2>
<p>I thought I needed to drink to feel confident.  And yet, the longer I go without drinking, the more confident I feel in every situation.  I trust myself more.  I feel strong and graceful and grounded.  I feel so incredibly peaceful without all that internal angst and drama.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>I Feel Healthier</h2>
<p>After decades of insomnia, I now sleep like an angel.  No waking at 3am, staring at the ceiling, wishing my dehydrated head would stop pounding.  It feels heavenly to wake up feeling fresh every morning with clarity, a feeling of connection, and a sense of purpose.</p>
<p>My face and eyes feel less &#8216;puffy&#8217;, my skin is less dry, and my little &#8216;wine pouch&#8217; belly disappeared.  I have more energy, my digestion has improved ten fold, and brain fog is a thing of the past.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>I Feel Happier</h2>
<p>I feel more myself than I have in a very long time.  </p>
<p>That cheeky sense of humour I thought only came out to play at wine o&#8217;clock?  Turns out it wanted to play all the time &#8211; I was just pigeonholing it.</p>
<p>The anxiety I thought I was drinking to soothe?  Turns out drinking only delayed it and invited it back double-strength the next day.  Craziest of all is that drinking actually caused most of it to begin with.  I&#8217;ve rarely felt anxious in the past few months &#8211; instead feeling only increasing calm and bliss.  <em>Sweet Heavens! </em><br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>I Have So Much More Time Now</h2>
<p>Without late nights or days wasted in hangover-mode, I have so much more time and energy.  Time for movies (and remembering the entire plot), farmers markets, brunch dates, early morning writing sessions, long walks, trying new things, and daydreams.  </p>
<p>Time for greater creativity and clarity, productivity, and deep, peaceful relationships.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>The Part I Love Most</h2>
<p>The absolute, delicious, blissful <em>freedom</em>.  </p>
<p>Freedom from counting drinks.  Freedom from giving myself &#8216;those lectures&#8217; about not making an idiot of myself this time.  Freedom from saying stupid things I regret.  Freedom from believing I can only connect with people when I have a drink in my hand.  Freedom from searching for late-night cabs in the freezing cold, or worrying about how to get home.  Freedom from the morning-after cocktail of tiredness, nausea, anxiety and paranoia.     </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying it&#8217;s always easy.  Some Fridays &#8211; especially when I&#8217;m hungry and/or tired &#8211; my inner 3-year-old throws a tantrum and still wants <em>wine, wine, WINE!  </em></p>
<p>But I am saying it gets much easier.  And is so, SO worth it.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>So Is This Forever?</h2>
<p>&#8216;Forever&#8217; still feels too big, too scary, too infinite.  It&#8217;s still too huge for me to hold-my-hand-on-my-heart and promise on.  For now all I know is that sobriety is too beautiful a sanctuary for me to want to give it up anytime soon.  I worked so hard to get here and it&#8217;s more sublime than I could ever have imagined. </p>
<p>Throughout this journey I promised myself that I&#8217;d treat myself to a lovely big gift at the end of 100 days to reward myself for &#8216;going without&#8217; for so long&#8230;  only to find now that I&#8217;m here (at day 139, according to my trusty little <a target="_blank" href="http://geni.us/sobrietyclock">tracker app</a>), I don&#8217;t need it anymore.  </p>
<p>Alcohol-<em>free</em>  &nbsp;turned out to be the biggest gift of all.  &nbsp; &hearts;<br />
&nbsp;<br />
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<p>&nbsp;<br />
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<h2>Update, September 2014:</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s been almost six months since I decided to conduct the sassy experiment that changed my life.  My darkest hours have inspired a soulful new direction, and I’m so excited to announce I&#8217;m now hard at work creating the website &#038; resource I wish I&#8217;d had during the first 90 days:<br />
&nbsp;<br />
<span style="font-weight:400;">::  &nbsp;Interviews + inspiration</span> from kick-ass babes who wouldn&#8217;t be where they are now if they hadn&#8217;t ditched the drink.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:400;">::  &nbsp;Elixirs + desserts</span> to tease your tastebuds and keep your mouth deliciously occupied.  </p>
<p><span style="font-weight:400;">::  &nbsp;Stories + journals</span> for deep reflection and getting your head straight.<br />
&nbsp;<br />
<span style="font-weight:400;">Sexy Sobriety</span> has become a haven of inspiration, wellness, and empowerment for hundreds of women from around the globe.</p>
<h2>Learn more (and receive a free coaching call video) at <a target="_blank" href="http://sexysobriety.com.au">SexySobriety.com</a>.</h2>
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<a target="_blank" href="http://sexysobriety.com.au"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/sexySobriety-sidebar5.jpg" alt="SexySobriety.com.au" width="400" height="132" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8579" /></a></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Click here to read Part 1. &#160; If there&#8217;s one thing I&#8217;ve learnt in adopting a vegan lifestyle, then eating gluten-free, then starting my health coaching practice, it&#8217;s that having a great support network can mean the difference between weeping alone in the corner, and rocking it out and actually enjoying the challenge. Before embarking [&#8230;]</p>
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<h2><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/08/100-days-without-a-drink-history/">Click here to read Part 1.</a></h2>
<p>&nbsp;<br />
If there&#8217;s one thing I&#8217;ve learnt in adopting a vegan lifestyle, then eating gluten-free, then starting my health coaching practice, it&#8217;s that having a great support network can mean the difference between weeping alone in the corner, and rocking it out and actually <em>enjoying</em> the challenge.</p>
<p>Before embarking on an experiment of this magnitude, I knew I&#8217;d need help, and lots of it.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>My Tools of Choice</h2>
<p>:: Like the true geek I am, I wrote a <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/04/15/10-things-better-than-a-bad-habit/" title="10 Things Better Than A Bad Habit">10 Things Better Than Wine</a> list and referred to it every day.</p>
<p>:: I joined <a target="_blank" href="https://www.hellosundaymorning.org">Hello Sunday Morning</a> (such a great initiative!) and read stories from others who were undergoing the same challenge.</p>
<p>:: I ordered and read Jason Vale&#8217;s book: <a target="_blank" href="http://geni.us/jasonvale">&#8216;Kick the Drink&#8230; Easily!&#8217;</a>  </p>
<p>:: In a very happy accident (while reading an article about the increasing number of &#8216;dry&#8217; cafes opening in the UK), I discovered the <a target="_blank" href="http://soberistas.com">Soberistas</a> website.  There, I was amazed and <em>oh-so</em> relieved to find oodles of incredibly helpful sober blogs (including my now-favourites: <a target="_blank" href="http://carrieonsober.wordpress.com">Carrie on Sober</a>, <a target="_blank" href="http://livingwithoutalcohol.blogspot.com.au">Mrs D is Going Without</a>, <a target="_blank" href="http://unpickled.wordpress.com">Unpickled</a>, and <a target="_blank" href="http://fitfatfood.wordpress.com">Fit Fat Food</a>).  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure why I was so surprised to find these blogs.  Did I really think I was the only woman in the world struggling to put the glass down?  </p>
<p>:: I also stumbled across Belle&#8217;s blog and <a target="_blank" href="http://tiredofthinkingaboutdrinking.wordpress.com/2013/03/14/100-day-challenge/">100 Day Challenge</a>:<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote><p>I will not drink for 100 days.  No matter what.  I can cry, but I will not drink.  I can go to bed or go home early. I might feel distressed… but I will not drink.  Bad things might happen, but I will not drink.  Incredibly shitty things may happen to someone around me, or my neighbor, or my friend’s friend’s grandmother.  But there will be no booze.  Funerals? Weddings? Amputation?  I’m not drinking for 100 days no matter what happens… No matter what.<br />
~ Belle, <a target="_blank" href="http://tiredofthinkingaboutdrinking.wordpress.com">Tired of Thinking About Drinking</a></p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;<br />
This challenge instantly appealed to me.  Quite honestly, the thought of never drinking again was terrifying.  Even thinking about it made my chest constrict and the waterworks start again.  </p>
<p><em>One hundred days.</em>  Now, that seemed manageable.  Long enough to have a proper break and then reassess the situation, but short enough to seem achievable (and a whole lot less scary than &#8216;forever&#8217;).  </p>
<p>:: I downloaded a <a target="_blank" href="http://geni.us/sobrietyclock">Day Tracker app</a> onto my phone and decided 100 days was my goal.<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>The Hardest Part</h2>
<p>I&#8217;m not gonna&#8217; lie.  The first 30 days were tough.  </p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t expected to feel so insanely <em>tired</em> all the time.  I&#8217;d only been drinking (albeit to excess) a couple (<em>okay</em>, sometimes 4 or 5) nights per week, so I didn&#8217;t expect a physical detox.  Very naïve on my part, especially since it took my body a good 30 days to detox from dairy, and then again from gluten.  I should&#8217;ve seen it coming.    </p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t think I&#8217;d cry so much but I did.  I threw a couple of tantrums in frustration at not being able to drink like &#8216;normal&#8217; people (and cried).  I replayed all the stupid, drunken things I&#8217;ve ever done over-and-over in my mind (and cried some more).  </p>
<p>I was upset that I&#8217;d let alcohol have such a huge influence over me and I hated the fear I felt in taking it away.  I was frustrated that it felt <em>so hard</em> to go without it, and that I didn&#8217;t really know how to deal with my daily emotions.  I hated that reality felt so relentless without the option of &#8216;cutting loose&#8217; on a Friday night.  And I hated that I wasn&#8217;t sure who I was in social settings without a drink in my hand.</p>
<p>Feelings reinforced by the reaction from friends and former colleagues, generally along the lines of: &#8220;Are you <em>insane</em>?  I&#8217;d rather go without <em>food</em> for 100 days than alcohol!&#8221;  </p>
<p>The very same reaction I would have had before I embarked on this challenge.</p>
<p>Would people still invite me out if I stopped drinking for good?<br />
Would I always feel like I was missing out?<br />
Would I ever have &#8211; or be &#8211; fun, ever again?</p>
<p>I was afraid of what would happen if I stopped drinking.  But I was more afraid of what would happen if I <em>didn&#8217;t</em>.    </p>
<p>And I got through it.  </p>
<p>Day 30 fell on my birthday, and for the first time since I turned 17, I celebrated it sober.  Instead of my usual cocktails, champagne and dancing-on-tables celebration, I spent the night cuddling on the couch with my love, my favourite dinner (fajitas), some fancy raw chocolate, a crystal goblet filled with sparkling mineral water and fresh lime, and an 80&#8217;s flick.  </p>
<p>And you know what?  It felt really good.  Wholesome.  Healthy.  <em>Right</em>.</p>
<p>Little did I know, the <em>real</em> discoveries were yet to come&#8230;<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/08/07/100-days-without-a-drink-lessons/">Click here to read Part 3.</a></h2>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2014 01:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>&#160; Remember that post I wrote about resistance? Oh boy, did I feel it while I was trying to write this post. I was so tempted to hide it away, leave it unsaid, just move on&#8230; But more than that, I wanted to reach out to anyone who might be struggling with the same battles [&#8230;]</p>
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Remember that post I wrote about <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/03/28/overcoming-resistance/">resistance</a>?  Oh boy, did I feel it while I was trying to write this post.  I was so tempted to hide it away, leave it unsaid, just move on&#8230;<br />
But more than that, I wanted to reach out to anyone who might be struggling with the same battles and demons.  This is for you, angel-face.  You are loved, and you are not alone.<br />
&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;<br />
<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100DaysWithoutADrink.jpg" alt="100 Days Without A Drink" width="640" height="400" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-8438" srcset="https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100DaysWithoutADrink.jpg 640w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100DaysWithoutADrink-200x125.jpg 200w, https://vegansparkles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/100DaysWithoutADrink-300x187.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px" /><br />
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<h2>How It All Began</h2>
<p>When I discovered, at age 16, that alcohol could magically transform me from shy and introverted to confident and outgoing, I fell in love with the stuff.  Never mind that it regularly kicked my ass, made me do and say stupid things, and stole my self-worth.  For most of the time (okay, at least half the time), it made me feel glamorous, fun and hilarious.  Before I&#8217;d even turned 18 I couldn&#8217;t imagine a social life without it.    </p>
<p>There was just one teensy little problem.  My &#8216;off&#8217; switch doesn&#8217;t work.  I&#8217;ve never felt ill while drinking, or thrown up, so there was never a point in the night that signalled I should stop.  Well, besides slurred speech and errors in judgement, of course, but nothing that was awful enough to make me immediately put down the glass.  While I was drinking I always felt like I was having the time of my life, so I did what any party girl would do &#8211; I kept going.  The next morning I always felt like death warmed up but I shrugged it off. </p>
<p><em>Oh well, what&#8217;s the big deal?  Everyone in Australia binge drinks.  It&#8217;s just a bit of fun.</em></p>
<p>Until, of course, it isn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Really this whole nonsense should&#8217;ve stopped in my 20s.  In an ideal world I would have woken up on my 30th birthday and thought &#8216;Wow, that was a blast but I&#8217;m so glad I&#8217;m mature and sophisticated now. I&#8217;m excited to see what comes next, and am so relieved that I can just enjoy a single glass of icy cold Sauvignon Blanc at a dinner party and leave it at that.&#8217; </p>
<p>But no.  It carried on <em>wayyyy</em> too far into my 30s.</p>
<p>I always drank more than I meant to.  That first sip was <em>oh-so</em> seductive.  If I was out with friends, it made the night feel more exciting.  If I was at home, I loved the way it made my worries just melt away.  It felt utterly delicious and I didn&#8217;t want it to stop.  </p>
<p><em>Another glass, please!  Keep &#8217;em coming!</em></p>
<p>Deep down I knew it was a problem but, like so many friends I see white-knuckling their way through &#8216;Dry July&#8217; in my Facebook feed, I was scared to think about what that might mean.  There&#8217;s no way I could give up booze forever.  It would be like every day was a weekday!  I&#8217;d never have any fun.  I&#8217;d be forever missing out.  No-one would ever invite me anywhere.  How would I <em>live</em>?</p>
<p>So I tried the set-number-of-drinks rule.  I tried the drinking-water-every-other-drink rule.  I tried the only-drinking-on-Fridays rule.  And they all worked.  For a while.  </p>
<p>But every few weeks or so I&#8217;d end up drinking that one wine too many and not remember the trip home.  And the more I tried to focus on not drinking, the more it happened.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;d spend the next day in a downward spiral of anxiety, shame, and nausea.  I&#8217;d argue with my love.  I&#8217;d feel cranky and frustrated that I couldn&#8217;t drink like &#8216;normal&#8217; people in their 30s.  And then I&#8217;d sob.  Heartbreaking, racking tears of sadness for getting myself stuck in this mess.  I was supposed to be a Health Coach!  Why couldn&#8217;t I control this thing?  I felt sick with fear at what it would mean if I had to stop drinking completely.  </p>
<p>I was afraid that I&#8217;d never have &#8211; or be &#8211; fun, ever again.</p>
<p>How had it come to this?  How had I trapped myself in this ridiculous pattern?  I know alcohol is used a social lubricant, but when had it become such a self-esteem crutch for me?  How is it I couldn&#8217;t even <em>imagine</em> a joy-filled existence without alcohol?<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<h2>The Breaking Point</h2>
<p>One day one of my beautiful clients confided that she drank to make herself feel less lonely, and to my sheer horror I heard myself say &#8220;That&#8217;s okay.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I felt sick the second the words left my lips, because I know in my heart that it&#8217;s not okay.  It&#8217;s never okay to use alcohol (or food or drugs) to numb ourselves or avoid what&#8217;s really going on in our lives.  </p>
<p>I felt disgusted with myself.  I owed my clients more than that and most of all, I owed it to myself.  In that moment, I vowed to be a better example and sort this shizzle out for once and for all.   </p>
<p>Why on earth was I self-sabotaging, anyway?  I was <em>this close</em> to living my dream life, with a career I was so passionate about and with the love-of-my-life by my side.  Was I really choosing wine over happiness?  Vodka over vitality?  Tequila over tranquility?    </p>
<p>I had a sneaking suspicion that it wasn&#8217;t merely coincidence that my best writing sessions of the week just happened to fall on the day furthest from my last drink.  <em>All writers drink, don&#8217;t they?</em></p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t want something so stupid to hold me back.  I didn&#8217;t want to feel upset if I didn&#8217;t have a drink on Friday nights.  I didn&#8217;t want to keep falling into the binge drinking trap.  I was sick of the anxiety, the shame, and the horrific hangovers slowing me down and keeping me from rocking my passions.  </p>
<p>I wanted freedom!  </p>
<p>I wanted to feel playful, with confidence that was authentically <em>me</em>, not poured from a bottle.  I wanted deeper connections, less anxiety, more space, more love, more potential.</p>
<p>I wanted transformation, dammit!</p>
<p>And so, tears running down my face and hands shaking, I stuck this quote to my vision board, and set out to answer the question: can life be sober <em>and</em> sparkly?<br />
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<blockquote><p>If you don&#8217;t change anything, you don&#8217;t grow.</p></blockquote>
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If only I&#8217;d known what I was about to discover&#8230;<br />
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<h2><a href="https://vegansparkles.com/2014/07/15/100-days-without-a-drink-tools/">Click here to read Part 2.</a></h2>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>&#160; Oh, bad, unhealthy, unwelcome habits. Why is it you&#8217;re so easy to fall into but so very hard to crawl out of? When it comes to liberating yourself from habits that no longer serve you, we talk a lot in The Sparkle Project about moving your focus from what you&#8217;re giving up, to what [&#8230;]</p>
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Oh, bad, unhealthy, unwelcome habits.  Why is it you&#8217;re so easy to fall into but so very hard to crawl out of?  </p>
<p>When it comes to liberating yourself from habits that no longer serve you, we talk a lot in <a href="https://vegansparkles.com/the-sparkle-project/">The Sparkle Project</a> about moving your focus from what you&#8217;re giving up, to what you’re gaining in return.  We look at ways of shifting perception from a place of fear to a place of love.  When you do, rather than feeling deprived and miserable from missing out, you begin to feel empowered, inspired, <em>excited</em> even, by your choice.  Eventually &#8216;I can’t have that&#8217; becomes &#8216;I don’t want that&#8217;, and <em>then</em> baby, you&#8217;re truly free.</p>
<p>Whether you’re struggling to remove yourself from the seductive clutches of wine, cheese, meat, sugar, gluten, binge-eating or drinking, social media, a toxic relationship with an ex, or <em>anything</em> you feel is not good for you, a great way to do this is to make a list.  Get creative and brainstorm 10 things better than that habit.  This list then becomes your toolbox, your safety net, and your best friend.  When you feel tempted, focus on one or all of the things on your beautiful list instead.</p>
<p>If you’re not a list person, find 10 images of things or emotions that are better than that habit and stick them on your fridge, your desk, your bathroom mirror, or your vision board.  Remind yourself of your big WHY.  Why you want to change; what your life would be like without that unhealthy habit; who you could become if you were free of its clutches.<br />
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When I decided to embark on a vegan lifestyle and the thought of never eating cheese (<em>ever again </em>) filled me with horror, I made a list of 10 things better than cheese.  The list included things like guacamole, salsa, sundried-tomato hummus, better digestion, fewer eczema breakouts, and never having to worry about my weight again (that one <em>never</em> gets old!).  I carried the list with me everywhere and used it to fend off unwanted dairy advances.  Within 30 days my tastebuds had changed, my mantra had worked, and I was free!  <em>Damn</em>, that felt good.</p>
<p>Now that I&#8217;ve decided I want to be free of wine, I&#8217;m using the same tactic.  <em>Aahhh</em> vino&#8230;  such a glamorous temptress.  I care for her too much, and just like any dysfunctional relationship, she cares for me too little.  She promises me a great time and then robs me of my sparkle.  She whispers that I need her to relax, celebrate, or even just have dinner with pals.  Then the next day when I&#8217;m feeling tired and anxious, where is she, huh?  Vanished!  </p>
<p>Well I&#8217;ve had enough!  She&#8217;s not welcome here anymore. </p>
<p>So my list now looks like this:<br />
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<h2>10 Things Better Than Wine</h2>
<p>1. Productive, happy mornings.  No headaches, no hangovers &#8211; just bliss.  </p>
<p>2. Glowing skin and eyes that sparkle.</p>
<p>3. Better digestion.  Absorption of every last trace of that expensive Spirulina!</p>
<p>4. Fresh vegetable juices.  I can literally <em>feel</em> my body becoming healthier with every sip.  Green glam, baby!  Mason jars are cooler than wine stems anyway, right?  <em>Right?</em></p>
<p>5. Clarity &#8211; of thoughts, emotions, energy.</p>
<p>6. Uninterrupted creativity.  Whether we like it or not, alcohol dulls that creative spark.  Ideas are harder to come by.  Things don’t just flow.  I want more of the good stuff &#8211; passion, inspiration, creativity, lightning bolts of brilliance.  </p>
<p>7. The smell of fresh, clean sheets beneath my clear and happy head as I fall sleep.</p>
<p>8. More money for other treats like fancy herbal tea, books, workout wear in gorgeous sorbet colours, &#8216;just because I love you&#8217; gifts for my favourite people, animal charity donations, and raw chocolate.    </p>
<p>9. Better (stronger!) memories of the good times.  Sober D&#038;Ms and spontaneous belly laughs.  Confidence and courage that is authentically <em>me</em> &#8211; not poured from a bottle.  </p>
<p>10.  Personal growth.  If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.  I&#8217;ve always used wine as a social lubricant so it&#8217;s a bit scary to navigate functions without it.  Change takes courage but rewards you in so many ways, the best way being evolution of your soul.<br />
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<h2>Your turn, beautiful.</h2>
<p>What do you feel compulsively drawn to but know your life would ultimately be richer without?  Maybe it&#8217;s a certain food, a relationship, or a behaviour you have a hard time saying no to.  </p>
<p>Flip it, baby!  What are 10 things/emotions/benefits better than that thing for you?  Write your list and carry it with you, or stick &#8217;em up where you can see them.  Remind yourself of your big WHY every single day until that old habit no longer even appeals to you.  Use affirmations to reinforce your reasons.  </p>
<p>Rewrite your story.  Harness your big, bright potential.  Brainwash your way to total babeness.  You got this.  </p>
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